Last night I made
the conscious decision not to blog. In
part I was exhausted from my day of travel and ministry, and partly I just felt
like it wasn’t worth it to just put out a blog, to put out a blog. Plus I kind of felt the freedom to just let
it go for one day because of the blog post “Failing” by Micha Murray that I read a few
days ago…so there’s that too.
Anyway, something I
have been noticing about myself lately is that I tend to be annoyed and frustrated
with other people, and just get fixated on what I perceive they have done “wrong”
instead of actually taking the time to look into my own heart and discover why
this bothers me so much and what I can do to change my reaction.
This morning I spent
quite a bit of time journaling about it… about why I am like this and what’s
really going on in my heart… and I realized that the reason why I fixate on other
people’s “issues” is because it’s so much easier then looking at my own!
The Bible talks
about trying to take the speck out of other people’s eyes while we have planks
in our own. In my mind, I always picture
myself trying to get a toothpick out of my friend’s eyes while I have a
telephone pole protruding out of mine.
What always ends up happening in this mental picture of mine, is that I
end up hurting the other person and myself…. Which is pretty much what happens in
real life.
So that begs the
question… how do we get the telephone pole out?
And is it even possible to do so? And if by chance I am even capable of
doing so, does that mean that I should then even go back and try and pick at
that toothpick in my friends eye?
Honestly, I don’t
know that it’s possible, this side of heaven.
As much as I believe that we are new creations when we come to Christ and
thus we have a new nature, in my day to day life I struggle to constantly live
out of that “newness”. In fact most
times I struggle to believe that it’s possible for anyone (outside of Jesus) to
live a sinless life.
Maybe that makes me
a bad Christian. Maybe that shows the
cracks in my own spiritual armor or at least my understanding of God and my
relationship with him. But… it’s also
true, and maybe the best way to begin working that pole out is just to be
honest…. To admit the truth and to be real.
I also think that
pulling a telephone pole out of your eye, or even having it removed “gently” by a surgeon,
is going to cause some pain, it's also going to take some time to recover and it will even bring about some changes in
lifestyle. None of that is easy….it
takes a conscious decision or decisions, it takes being willing to change, it
even takes the ability to sit with the pain (at least for a bit).
But I also think,
like with any type of surgery a person would have, it’s necessary…and it’s
worth it…. at least in this moment is sure seems like it would be.
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